Is there anything more rewarding than being able to care for one’s own self? Help your child on the path to independence with home activities that support similar self-care “lessons” in the Montessori classroom. A little planning and a lot of patience will go far!<\/p>\n
The most important (and the hardest!) part? Allow plenty of time for learning and practice, so your child can master new skills without pressure from the clock (and you can get to the office on time).<\/p>\n
Maria Montessori tells us in\u00a0The Discovery of the Child<\/em>, “If teaching is to be effective with young children, it must assist them to advance on the way to independence…We must help them to learn how to walk without assistance, to run,…to dress and undress, to wash themselves…All this is part of an education for independence.<\/em>”<\/p>\n “Care of Self” activities children can do at home<\/b><\/p>\n First things first: dressing & undressing<\/p>\n Good morning! Time to get dressed!<\/b> It’s cold outside! How to put on a coat or sweater.<\/b> “I did it myself!” Children love this activity and repeat it on their own. Off they run with a great sense of accomplishment, even if the coat is upside down. I still smile when I remember hoods flopping around like dinosaur tails as the children play! You can always give another lesson later. Let your child revel in the accomplishment of getting the coat on first!<\/p>\n P.S. Do you have a photo of your children all dressed up all by themselves?\u00a0Share your pics with other parents on Facebook!<\/p>\n Time to change clothes! How to set up a child’s dressing area.<\/b> Time to clean up! How to have fun with laundry.<\/b> Try these invitations and your child will find putting clothes away as much fun as taking them out!<\/p>\n Step-by-step activities for children at home<\/p>\n Children take great pride in keeping their belongings beautiful. They love tidying, sweeping, dusting, and all kinds of clean-up activities. Maria Montessori noticed that step-by-step activities appeal to children’s sense of order, as well as support their success.<\/p>\n Parents can make learning easy and successful for children with a Montessori-style presentation. Break any activity into simple steps. Try it yourself first, then demonstrate the steps for your child, slowly and deliberately. Children will watch like little eagles! Use the examples below to get started and watch their skills blossom!<\/p>\n It’s time for dinner… Let’s wash our hands!<\/b><\/p>\n My, these shoes are dirty… Let’s clean them up!<\/b> Do try this at home! More “Care of Self” Activities<\/p>\n Nose-blowing!<\/strong> Dr. Montessori discreetly took out her handkerchief, blew her nose ever so quietly, and put the handkerchief away. The children were so delighted with her demonstration they spontaneously applauded! Who’d think that blowing your nose would make such an impact!<\/p>\n You can teach your child Montessori’s three-step nose-blowing technique. Also, find a handy spot at home for a box of tissues and a waste basket. Your child will take a tissue and blow his nose whenever needed. You can also teach your child how to cough into his elbow. Let him know that this will prevent spreading germs to his friends.<\/p>\n Managing clothing closures<\/strong>. Focus on one activity at a time. Start with mastering buttoning and work your way up to buckling, which is the hardest. Set aside a good amount of time when you can work together to perfect these skills. Attempt this as you’re running off to soccer practice? Not so good.<\/p>\n Good grooming is important at any age<\/strong>. It’s never too early for good oral hygiene<\/strong>. Foster your child’s quest for independence.<\/p>\n Increase your child’s confidence.<\/p>\n Help build self-esteem.<\/i><\/p>\n All it takes is a little planning, plenty of time, and lots of patience. Before you know it, you’ll hear your child’s joyful voice say, “I did it myself!”<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Is there anything more rewarding than being able to care for one’s own self? Help your child on the path to independence with home activities that support similar self-care “lessons” in the Montessori classroom. A little planning and a lot of patience will go far! The most important (and the hardest!) part? Allow plenty of …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[47],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/yycmontessori.ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/969"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/yycmontessori.ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/yycmontessori.ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yycmontessori.ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yycmontessori.ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=969"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/yycmontessori.ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/969\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/yycmontessori.ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=969"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yycmontessori.ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=969"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yycmontessori.ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=969"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}\n
\nLet children choose their clothing. Give them two options\u2014the red dress or the blue dress. This is much easier than opening the closet door and saying, “What would you like to wear today?” Make sure the clothing is easy for children to put on by themselves. For younger children, skip the belts, buckles, and buttons. Opt for easy-on\/easy-off clothing. Remember, children will have to use the bathroom at school so make it as easy as possible for them and avoid accidents.<\/p>\n
\nTeach your child the “up and over” method. Place the child’s coat on the floor with the collar near the child’s feet. The child bends down, places his arms in the arms of the coat, lifts the coat up and over his head, and voila! He’s wearing his coat.\u00a0See a child putting on a jacket this way.<\/p>\n
\nHelp your child become independent by installing hooks where he can easily hang up and retrieve his clothing. Install low rods in the closet making it easy to reach hangers. Set up shelves that are low, making it easy to reach clothing (This works for toys, sports equipment, and other activities too). Place baskets on the low shelves. They are wonderful for storing different types of clothing. Label each basket: one for hats, one for scarves, one for mittens, and so on.<\/p>\n
\nDo you get resistance when you tell your child, “You need to put your clothes away!”? Make a game out of it, instead!
\nAdult: “Hmm…Where is your green t-shirt? I can’t find it.”
\nChild: “Here it is! I’ll put it away!”<\/p>\n\n
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\nYou can create a shoe cleaning activity at home your child will love! Who knows? Children may even offer to clean shoes for the entire family \u2014 satisfying results and helping out the family are wonderful ways to develop self-esteem and independence.<\/p>\n\n
\nChildren always have the sniffles, no matter what time of year it is. Maria Montessori showed children how to care for their little noses when she demonstrated using a handkerchief to blow her own nose.<\/p>\n
\nThe Montessori Dressing Frames used in the classroom teach children how to master buttoning, Velcro-ing, snapping, zipping, tying, lacing, and buckling. Parents can help by giving children daily opportunities to practice with their own clothing and shoes at home.<\/p>\n
\nA child-size brush is perfect for teaching children how to take care of their own hair. Brush hair before school, after kite-flying, or before a special event. Whatever the occasion, allowing enough time is the key to success.<\/p>\n
\nYoung children are capable of brushing their own teeth. Keep your child’s tooth brush and toothpaste in a special place in the bathroom. Establish a tooth-brushing routine. Brush after meals, after snacks, and before bedtime. Your child will establish a lifelong habit.<\/p>\n