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Giving Thanks and Making Gifts

Tis the season when the true spirit of giving is often overtaken by a frantic schedule. Before that happens, let’s find ways you and your child can create a more meaningful holiday. Your child’s innate sense of generosity can be expanded as you focus on the activities of giving thanks and making gifts.

Begin with Thanksgiving

Thanksgiving is a time when we give thanks for both tangible and intangible gifts. It incorporates our desires to share our gifts with others and to give thanks for the abundant world in which we live. We can talk to even our youngest children about what we and they are thankful for. In my family, the tradition is to have each person at the Thanksgiving table say what they are grateful for just before we carve the turkey.

Another theme of the holiday season is generosity. Of course, the excitement of getting gifts often becomes the primary focus for children. However, we can help them learn the pleasure of giving to others. The gifts we give are another way to show our gratitude to someone.

Talk with your children about the many ways to be generous, whether gifting time, favors, presents, or words of appreciation. Your gift list may include family, friends, neighbors, and service workers. Children are amazingly insightful and will come up with original ideas, as together you discover the perfect “thank you” for that special someone.

Include the Children

Although sometimes it is easier just to purchase a gift for your child to give another, it is rewarding to involve children in the process of gift-making and giving. This allows your child to be a part of the surprise whether or not they are able to keep the secret. If possible, include your child in the process of wrapping and delivering the gift, too.

Montessori observed that children become acquainted with the world through movement and experience. The process of making something instills an inner satisfaction in the child which he wants to share. By “doing it myself,” the gift becomes a gift of the child’s self.

Made by Small Hands

Some of my favorite keepsakes are the handprints my children made as toddlers. In fact, I liked them so much I continued the project annually until the children’s hands became too big for the 5″X7″ frames I displayed them in.

Turkey Hand Print

  • To make a handprint, paint the palm of